I have always pondered what makes one person deceive another or themselves for any length of time? Is it fear of others not accepting who you are that makes you want to deceive or is it out of pure malice that one deceives? Some people use deception to get a job they want even though they're not qualified for it, others use deception to gain peoples trust in hopes to gain something in their favor.
When I was young I realized that government used deception to gain the publics favor, they had to in order to get what they wanted, most people would just turn a blind eye but a small group would actually rally together and band together for the sake of fighting the propaganda, that started my stage of the "punk" phase when I was a teenager in high school. I'm not sure if I even fully agreed with what said in those days but I was so wrapped up in the "fu*k the government" attitude that I didn't care what it meant, I considered myself a non-conformist. I was free, I was liberated to do or say what I wanted!! Wait.. no I wasn't, I was still bound by my social constrictions of labeling myself in a certain group, by no means did I even realize I was doing this until many years later.
When I started working after high school, I got into jobs that required skill and dedication and this is where I started to realize that people would take jobs they are under qualified for and lie on their resume, they had no reason to take that job other than they wanted the power and money so in essence greed went hand in hand with the deception. Then when you work with these people they have developed such a good ability to deceive that they can generally fool most of the people, but deception can only last for so long before you start making mistakes and everyone starts to see the deception.
Do people really believe these little fibs they put on their resume so much that they see nothing wrong with it? As a society why do we generally accept these deceptions, is it that they have been going on for so long that now it's assimulated into the social norm and we're comfortable with it? Or is society really that blind to see the mass deception that is occuring around them? I really want to believe that society could be smarter than that but as well all know that will never happen.
When I was young I realized that government used deception to gain the publics favor, they had to in order to get what they wanted, most people would just turn a blind eye but a small group would actually rally together and band together for the sake of fighting the propaganda, that started my stage of the "punk" phase when I was a teenager in high school. I'm not sure if I even fully agreed with what said in those days but I was so wrapped up in the "fu*k the government" attitude that I didn't care what it meant, I considered myself a non-conformist. I was free, I was liberated to do or say what I wanted!! Wait.. no I wasn't, I was still bound by my social constrictions of labeling myself in a certain group, by no means did I even realize I was doing this until many years later.
When I started working after high school, I got into jobs that required skill and dedication and this is where I started to realize that people would take jobs they are under qualified for and lie on their resume, they had no reason to take that job other than they wanted the power and money so in essence greed went hand in hand with the deception. Then when you work with these people they have developed such a good ability to deceive that they can generally fool most of the people, but deception can only last for so long before you start making mistakes and everyone starts to see the deception.
Do people really believe these little fibs they put on their resume so much that they see nothing wrong with it? As a society why do we generally accept these deceptions, is it that they have been going on for so long that now it's assimulated into the social norm and we're comfortable with it? Or is society really that blind to see the mass deception that is occuring around them? I really want to believe that society could be smarter than that but as well all know that will never happen.